Category: Real Soldiers

  • Guest Post: Captain Walter Sidlowski

    Guest Post: Captain Walter Sidlowski

    Written by MCPO USN NYC (ret)
    Walter Sidlowski

    Many neighborhoods, villages, towns and cities has at least one … a man who was there, a man who speaks little of the horror of war, yet carries it with him in a manner that inspires others.

    Walter Sidlowski was such man. I met him years ago at our local watering hole, while I was returning from an event. I was wearing my CPO khakis and he enthusiastically introduced himself as an US Army veteran who served in WWII. Minutes later I was pulled aside by his proud and loving son Ken and given a more complete story of this man.

    I was immediately drawn and fascinated by the elder statesman of our neighborhood and grew to respect him like a father figure. Each time we met his face would light up and we would chat about something related to the Army or Navy … he knew me as the “Navy Chief”.

    When I retired from the US Navy on November 10, 2011, Walter was a special guest at my ceremony and he was immediately announced with the first few paragraphs of my final address to the ships company:
    “Before I begin my final address, and in keeping my responsibility as a Chief Petty Officer to be a sincere and true custodian of military history, naval heritage, and tradition, I wish to introduce two very special guests on this eve of Veteran’s Day.

    The first was born in Williamsburg, Brooklyn in 1920 and set foot on Normandy Beach on June 6th, 1944. As young first lieutenant in the 348th Combat Battalion, 5th Engineers Special Brigade, supporting the 1st Infantry Division on Omaha Beach, he was awarded the Bronze Star for Valor for rescuing scores of men from a floundering landing craft and others who were in the grip of a churning sea. The rescues were captured in a sequence of photos taken by famed photographer Walter Rosenblum which were published in various books and media including: The Longest Day; Victory at Sea; World at War; and video and narrative transcript that have been displayed in the National WWII Museum in New Orleans. In addition, this Soldier participated in the Battle of the Bulge. He was awarded the French Cross of War and 1st Order of Merit medals. He left the Army after war’s end as a Captain in 1st Infantry Division – The Big Red One. After the Army he served NYC as member of NYPD for 22 years from 1947 to 1969 and retired as a detective in the 23rd Precinct in East Harlem. He served as Assistant Head of Security of Columbia University for 10 years from 1972 to 1982. He was recently awarded the French Legion of Honor Medal. A true New Yorker and perfect example of the “Greatest Generation”. Ladies and gentlemen, Walter Sidlowski. Walter please stand. Walter is escorted by his devoted son Kenneth. Thank you sir for being here today.”

    Note: The second special guest on my final day was Dan Murphy, the father of LT Michael Murphy, USN, Medal of Honor recipient. Dan went on to announce publicly for the first time that the USS Michael Murphy would be commissioned in New York City.

    From the National WWII Museum website;

    “There was a landing craft breached, either due to fire or to being grounded, and quite a few men on it were not getting off and the craft was going down. We swam out and took a few…back to shore. Somebody else got a long rope which we swam out with, tied onto the landing craft, and had them hold onto…and walk themselves in…. At that time I had no idea there was a photographer in the vicinity.”
    –2nd Lt. Walter Sidlowski, 348th Combat Battalion, 5th Engineer Special Brigade
    “I saw this magnificent man swim out and bring some people off the sinking ship and bring them back in to shore and to me he was the picture of heroic beauty.”
    –Pfc. Walter Rosenblum, describing the rescue efforts of Lieutenant Walter Sidlowski

    1St LT Walter Sidlowski on Omaha Beach

    Above: 1St LT Walter Sidlowski on Omaha Beach rescues scores of drowning fellow Soldiers on June 6, 1944, D-Day invasion of France. Photo by Walter Rosenblum.

    1st LT Walter Sidlowski on Omaha Beach 2

    Above: 1st LT Walter Sidlowski on Omaha Beach recovers the dead after the June 6, 1944, D-Day invasion of France. This photo appears on the cover of the book “Normandy”. Photo by Walter Rosenblum.
    Walter died over seventy years after his heroic actions at Normandy. I suppose he was very tired after such a long and successful life … a life that he certainly deserved to live.
    Today at 1100 there will by a mass for Walter Sidlowski and later this man of the “Greatest Generation” will laid to rest at Calverton National Cemetery with LT Michael Murphy, USN and many others who sacrificed so much for their country.
    http://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/calverton.asp

  • Airmen saving the world

    Near Las Vegas, a flash flood trapped an 80-year-old woman in her car and swept her away. Luckily for her, three airmen were nearby to rescue her;

    FOX5 Vegas – KVVU

    “It started out really slowly and then it was right on top of you.”

    The raging river came so fast, the airmen said they didn’t have time to think about the danger.

    “As soon as we heard him yelling, the water was on top of us before we knew it.”

    As the water rose from ankle to knee-deep, the group of about 10 airmen from Nellis raced to get an elderly couple out of their Prius before it was swept away.

    “I had to slam the door and tell the guys on the other side to grab her out of there.”

    But things weren’t over yet as the fast-moving water started to sweep one of the airmen away, but luckily Airman Christopher Jones was ready, “I just saw an arm and a head flying down the water and was like, I’m going to pull them out and hope I don’t fall in.”

    […]

    “I don’t think hero. I feel most people would do the same thing.”

    Two other airmen actually helped carry the elderly woman through the waist-deep water.

    The 81-year-old woman who was rescued said she and her husband are visiting from Arizona. She said even though all of their luggage was in the Prius that was washed away, she’s just happy she and her husband are okay.

  • Marine Staff Sergeant David Lyon, EOD tech, passes

    Marine Staff Sergeant David Lyon, EOD tech, passes

    David Lyon

    Lee asked us to report on the passing of Marine Staff Sergeant David Lyon, who was an Explosive Ordinance Disposal technician who lost his legs in a blast four years ago. According to KSL.com, he had adapted well and was living his life in an exemplary manner;

    His parents said he battled his way back from the explosion to lead an active and inspiring life. That’s why they were stunned when he died after long-term complications last week.

    “He was cheerful, and he was strong,” said his mother, Lynette Lyon.

    American flags line the street and in front of Gordon and Lynette Lyon’s home in Syracuse. As they shared photos of their son playing with their grandson, they talked about what the Marine Corps meant to him.

    “It was a very big deal,” Lynette said. “He planned to only do that. That was what his life was about.”

    As an EOD bomb tech, David was one of the Marines who put himself in harm’s way to detonate bombs so they wouldn’t hurt anyone else. He deployed five times to combat zones, including two each to Afghanistan and Iraq.

    It appears that complications arose and caused his heart to give out.

    His parents were stunned when David was hospitalized again last week in San Diego. The family had time to gather around David before he died from heart complications and a stroke related to his previous injuries.

    His father served in the Navy, and his brothers have served in the Marines, the Air Force and the Utah National Guard.

    Gordon said he aspires to live like his son in the way that he gave of himself.

    I didn’t know David, but now I sure miss him.

  • Sergeant Major Jon Robert Cavaiani passes

    Sergeant Major Jon Robert Cavaiani passes

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    The sad news comes from many quarters that Sergeant Major Jon Robert Cavaiani, who earned the Medal of Honor in June 1971, has passed. According to Wiki;

    Born in England, Cavaiani emigrated to the United States with his parents in 1947 at age four. Though initially classified 4F, due in part to a severe allergy to bee stings, Cavaiani joined the Army from Fresno, California, shortly before becoming a naturalized citizen in 1968.

    His citation from the Congressional Medal of Honor Society;

    S/Sgt. Cavaiani distinguished himself by conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of life above and beyond the call of duty in action in the Republic of Vietnam on 4 and 5 June 1971 while serving as a platoon leader to a security platoon providing security for an isolated radio relay site located within enemy-held territory. On the morning of 4 June 1971, the entire camp came under an intense barrage of enemy small arms, automatic weapons, rocket-propelled grenade and mortar fire from a superior size enemy force. S/Sgt. Cavaiani acted with complete disregard for his personal safety as he repeatedly exposed himself to heavy enemy fire in order to move about the camp’s perimeter directing the platoon’s fire and rallying the platoon in a desperate fight for survival. S/Sgt. Cavaiani also returned heavy suppressive fire upon the assaulting enemy force during this period with a variety of weapons. When the entire platoon was to be evacuated, S/Sgt. Cavaiani unhesitatingly volunteered to remain on the ground and direct the helicopters into the landing zone. S/Sgt. Cavaiani was able to direct the first 3 helicopters in evacuating a major portion of the platoon. Due to intense increase in enemy fire, S/Sgt. Cavaiani was forced to remain at the camp overnight where he calmly directed the remaining platoon members in strengthening their defenses. On the morning of S June, a heavy ground fog restricted visibility. The superior size enemy force launched a major ground attack in an attempt to completely annihilate the remaining small force. The enemy force advanced in 2 ranks, first firing a heavy volume of small arms automatic weapons and rocket-propelled grenade fire while the second rank continuously threw a steady barrage of hand grenades at the beleaguered force. S/Sgt. Cavaiani returned a heavy barrage of small arms and hand grenade fire on the assaulting enemy force but was unable to slow them down. He ordered the remaining platoon members to attempt to escape while he provided them with cover fire. With 1 last courageous exertion, S/Sgt. Cavaiani recovered a machine gun, stood up, completely exposing himself to the heavy enemy fire directed at him, and began firing the machine gun in a sweeping motion along the 2 ranks of advancing enemy soldiers. Through S/Sgt. Cavaiani’s valiant efforts with complete disregard for his safety, the majority of the remaining platoon members were able to escape. While inflicting severe losses on the advancing enemy force, S/Sgt. Cavaiani was wounded numerous times. S/Sgt. Cavaiani’s conspicuous gallantry, extraordinary heroism and intrepidity at the risk of his life, above and beyond the call of duty, were in keeping with the highest traditions of the military service and reflect great credit upon himself and the U.S. Army.

  • Rodolfo “Rudy” Hernandez to be featured on a stamp

    Rodolfo “Rudy” Hernandez to be featured on a stamp

    Rodolfo Hernandez

    Most of you probably know the story of Rodolfo “Rudy” Hernandez, in fact we wrote about him a month or so ago when the Airborne & Special Operations Museum in Fayetteville, NC unveiled a diorama of his Medal of Honor moment when he killed 6 of the enemy eye-to-eye in Korea in May 1951. Well the Post Office is planning on issuing a commemorative stamp to the hero who passed a few months back, according to a link that Enigma sent us from WRAL;

    Rodolfo “Rudy” Hernandez, a Fayetteville Korean War Medal of Honor recipient, will be immortalized on a Korean War Medal of Honor stamp sheet, the U.S. Postal Service announced Thursday.

    The first stamps will be issued during a ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery on Saturday. Hernandez’ picture will appear outside the stamps on a stamp sheet.

    […]

    The morning after the attack, Hernandez was pronounced dead after he was found lying among the bodies of the North Korean soldiers. When a soldier saw a slight movement of Hernandez’s hand, medics began frantically trying to save his life.

    […]

    He spent his post-war years working for Department of Veterans Affairs, retiring in 1980.

  • Rob Jackson to get Silver Star

    Rob Jackson to get Silver Star

    Vietnam vet to receive Silver Star

    When Private Rob Jackson was first offered a Silver Star Medal, he refused it because he thought that he was just doing his job when he rushed unarmed into a firefight to treat his fallen brothers, but he’s changed his mind about the action on October 15, 1970. Now he’ll get his medal. From Portland Press Herald;

    Jackson was drafted, but he was also a conscientious objector. He wasn’t opposed to serving in the military, but he didn’t want to kill anyone. The Army placed him in a noncombat role as a medical aidman.

    “I had just connected with God,” he says. “It wasn’t like Roman candles, but it was a very powerful, very meaningful conversion.”

    Jackson refused to carry a weapon. Instead, he carried his Bible and his first aid kit whenever he was on a mission.

    […]

    The citation reads in part: “With complete disregard for his own safety, Private Jackson unhesitatingly maneuvered under a hail of enemy machine gun fire to reach the wounded soldiers and render first aid. … The bravery, aggressiveness and devotion to duty exhibited by Private Jackson are in keeping with the highest traditions of the military service and reflect great credit upon himself, his unit, the 25th Infantry Division and the United States Army.”

    The details are at the link, along with the confrontation that Jackson had with his sergeant after the battle. He’ll be accepting the medal at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial.

  • Where do we get such men?

    I spoke with Soldier who not long ago completed his second tour in Afghanistan.   I knew him as a teenager who was unsure what direction to take his life. I know him as a man for whom I have the greatest respect and admiration.  I have seen first hand the growth and the pain he and his family have endured by his decision to become a Soldier.

    Six years ago he was sitting in his Grandmother’s house watching a video on YouTube. The end of the video asked what have you done to support our troops? Within a few days he had been to see a recruiter within a few months he was in the Army.  His first day of Basic was also his 20th Birthday, He celebrated his 21st in Afghanistan.  He wears his CIB with pride, he can also wear a Purple Heart that he does not think he should have been awarded, you see he was in an explosion and spent a few days in the hospital and a few weeks recovering from TBI, but, in his opinion that’s not the same as getting shot or otherwise wounded in action. These are the facts verified and vetted. The facts don’t always tell the truth of events.

    We live in a nation that has been at war for 13 years.  The average recent high school graduate has no memory of our nation at peace.  Anyone joining the Army in the last 13 years knew they were going to war, but they still joined. They knew that there was a good chance that not only could they be asked to give their life for our way of life but to take lives as well, But they still joined.  We tied yellow ribbons around tress and gave parades for those going to war and for those returning, in time our nation at war became our way of life. The ribbons were not as prominent and the send offs and return were not as well covered by the news.  They still came and went.  The truth is we have grown weary of war. Most people don’t understand why we still have troops deployed.  Public opinion changes with the political wind, but the truth remains. Our sons and daughters are fighting a war.

    The Soldier with whom I spoke had nightmares when he came home,  he relived time and again the pain and suffering he witnessed as well as endured.  When he spoke to me about the injury and death he had seen, it was with barely restrained tears. The emotion in his voice transcended time and space, he could have been any Soldier speaking about any battle in history.  But he was not just any Soldier and it was not just any battle.  He was talking about the death and injury of his people, while they may not be brothers in flesh,  they are brothers in arms. I know that sound cliche but I cant think of any other term.

    He thinks that the people at home look down on him and his fellow Soldiers. He thinks that admitting he has bad dreams, or no longer likes loud noises or crowds makes him weak in some way. He told me a few stories about friends getting injured by IED’s.  He told me about how he coped with taking a life.  He told me about the reality of war. The whole time he talked I kept thinking to myself “how do we get such men?”

    He talked about “getting blown up” – his words.  He has survived 3 IED explosions in close proximity.  He was injured slightly “took some shrapnel, bot not bad enough to worry about”  the first time and suffered TBI the last time. The second he doesn’t talk much about.  While he was not physically injured he will carry the emotional injuries for a long time to come.   I still ask myself where do we get such men?

    I know his experiences are average for any Infantry Soldier with two deployments.  They are not what the average 25 year old American males has dealt with.  I know I spoke with a professional soldier. He believes in what his nation stands for.  He doesn’t see himself as anything but a soldier, he cannot grasp how anyone could see him as a Hero.  I cannot grasp how anyone could see him or anyone else that has answered  the call as anything but Hero’s.  I thank God we have such men.

  • Ryan Pitts and his Medal of Honor

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    Three years ago I went on an outback excursion into the mountains of Montana with the Heroes and Horses program.  At the time Demophilus blogged about it, which you can READ HERE.  Demophilus and I served together in the Army in Afghanistan, and we were paired up with a Forward Observer and an Infantryman from the 173rd Airborne.  The four of us shared a cabin, and later a tent when we headed up into the woods.  Over the ensuing week we got to know each other fairly well, telling stories, drinking adult beverages and just hanging out.  It was simply an amazing week.

    At the time the forward observer and the infantryman were just Ryan and Mongo, two guys that were awesome to hang out with, and have a ton of laughs.  Not sure if my body ended up hurting more from a week on a horse or a week of laughing nonstop.  Tonight (or maybe tomorrow) Ryan will be on the David Letterman show, a far cry from where we were in the mountains with no cell service, much less TV.

    On Monday I was honored to be one of Ryan’s guests as he received our nation’s highest honor for military service, the Medal of Honor.  Mongo was there as well, proudly wearing a lapel pin which showed his Silver Star.  The picture above is the four of us (from L to R, Mike “Mongo” Denton, Ryan Pitts, me, and Demophilius) as we once again enjoyed beverages and stories at a local American Legion post after the White House ceremony.

    Demophilius had a great comment to me as he drove me back to Marymount University to go back to my life as a counselor at Boys Nation.

    “It’s a little like hanging out with Peter Parker years before you found out he was Spiderman” he said.  It’s about as close to understanding our feelings as you can get.  The Ryan I knew, and know, is a guy who smiles constantly.  The Ryan in the video receiving his just reward was a stone faced paratrooper who brought a lot of Taliban to their just reward.

    When you hear what Ryan did that day, you get an image of him.  That image is both less and more than he is in “real life” which is what I know him from.  He’s a husband, a new father, a Red Sox fan, and a caring and giving guy.  I interviewed four people from the unit, and three of them specifically, and seperately said that “he would give anyone the shirt off his back.”  They talked about how he led by example, how unsurprised they were by his actions that day, and how he was the perfect spokesperson for the American Soldier.  He’s incredibly bright, incredibly articulate, and astonishgly humble.  You can tell from his press conference from his home state of New Hampshire…

    I cherish the week I spent with Ryan, somewhat for the opportunity to see Montana on horseback, but mostly becuse I got to hang out with Ryan and Mongo, two real life heroes.  And I cherished the opportunity to be on hand in the East Room when his actions that day in Afghanistan were recognized in such a hallowed occasion as the awarding of the Medal of Honor.

    But I will always remember Ryan for something he did before I even met him.  There was a young boy named Evan Pertile who had cancer.  But what defined Evan was his love of all things Military.  When Evan started having trouble finding the strength to eat, soldiers started sending encouragement and telling him he needed to eat if he wanted to grow up to be big and strong and join the army.  But Ryan actually went from New Hampshire down to Tennessee to meet Evan.  He even brought him gifts, like a maroon Paratroopers beret.

    He made that little boys day, and Evan would go on to recover fully.  Evan got a chance to come up to DC this week with his Mom, and see his hero (and mine) Ryan right before he received his medal.

    I’m excited to write a story for the American Legion Magazine about Ryan, his friendship with Evan, and the horrors of war experienced that day in Afghanistan that would later be known as the Battle of Wanat.  But I really want people to see the side of Ryan that I saw, and which his platoon mates are eager to point out: not just the stone-blooded warrior that everyone will see from the video of his award ceremony, but also the guy who would give you the shirt off his back, or the beret off his shelf.

    He’s an incredible warrior, no doubt about it, but he’s also one hell of a nice guy.