
Most of us have experienced many age-related milestones in our lives.
I couldn’t wait to be 13 so I was technically a teenager and I could go see a decent movie.
At 16 I could drive on my own. At 18 I could drink – legally.
Then, we transition to wanting to pump the brakes. Life is speeding by too fast. As you get older there are things you can’t do anymore. I was disappointed when I reached 28, because I could no longer join the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. Not that I ever wanted to, mind you, but it was one less thing I life I couldn’t do anymore due to my age.
Through the years, there were other milestones. Some unexpected as when I got that dreaded letter from AARP, the American Association of Retired Persons, when I turned 55.
But alas, there was one milestone I was looking forward to and that was turning 60, because it meant I could start drawing my retirement pay after spending almost 30 years in both the Navy and Navy Reserve, retiring out of the Reserve. The one time in my life I was looking forward to getting older.
So, I was advised to get my package in since, oddly, one has to request to get retirement pay. I did this many months beforehand hoping for a smooth transition.
I never got a brochure or package welcoming me to the exciting and fun-filled world of Navy Reserve retirement. There was no “Thank you for your service” letter signed by the POTUS. There was no fruit basket. I cared little about all that since cold, hard cash will keep me company on a snowy winter’s evening. Cashing it all in for one dollar bills, throwing it all on my bed and rolling around in it naked. That was the dream.
But no, it turns out they are backlogged.

https://www.public.navy.mil/bupers-npc/career/reservepersonnelmgmt/Pages/default.aspx
I even missed the following article about it back in August of 2018, although there was probably not much I could have done differently.
The article had a bunch of examples about how long people had to wait – in some cases one year, but reiterate that you will get every penny when the eagle finally flies.
I don’t know how the Army or Marine Corps is doing but if you are a “Gray area Navy Reservist” as they call it, put your package in a year early and hope for the best. I have a friend that is still a drilling reservist and will reach 60 next year. I broke the news to him that it’s a double-whammy for him: he will stop drilling and not get the check every month but has to wait until the retirement kicks in. He said his wife is not going to like hearing that.
They can keep throwing things at me but they won’t wear me down. Time’s on my side, I hope anyway.

Is this old sailor sour? Not really… because I’m used to waiting. Now I will look forward to turning 61 and not many people can say that.
I would have really liked that fruit basket – I’m not gonna lie.

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An aviation boatswain’s mate directs an aircraft on the flight deck of the aircraft carrier USS Ronald Reagan in the Philippine Sea, Sept. 20, 2018. (U.S. Navy photo/Kenneth Abbate)















The guided-missile destroyer USS McCampbell
Vice Adm. Scott Stearney, commander of U.S. Naval Forces Central Command, U.S. 5th Fleet aboard USS Jason Dunham (DDG-109) on Oct. 24, 2018. US Navy Photo