A young lady who reads our blog emailed me today about a problem she had at work.<\/p>\n
I am currently involved in a little dispute with a former submariner. I informed him he kind of messed up and instead of discussing it with me, he ran to the boss and said I yelled at him and threw things and generally scared him (I tossed a post-it note pad in the air in frustration). I now need the appropriate navy code words for put on your big boy pants and stop being a pansy so that he will know what I think without giving him ammo against me. This because passive aggressive is ok but yelling is not.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
She adds when I asked if the guy was a Zero:<\/p>\n
Of course he was an officer. No enlisted guy would be scared by an overweight, grating, 5 foot tall woman discussing things with a slightly raised voice and an eye roll. That’s right. He ratted me out on that too.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
My advice was to tell him to “Man up Sally” but my HR department has me on speed dial, so I might not be the best source. \u00a0I don’t speak Navy, can anyone help her?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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