{"id":137606,"date":"2023-02-25T09:55:47","date_gmt":"2023-02-25T14:55:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/?p=137606"},"modified":"2023-02-25T09:55:47","modified_gmt":"2023-02-25T14:55:47","slug":"northern-california-diner-halts-veteran-groups-use-of-room","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/?p=137606","title":{"rendered":"Northern California diner halts veteran group&#8217;s use of room"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_137607\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-137607\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-137607\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area-300x170.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area-300x170.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area-500x283.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area-768x434.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Joe-Sigala-talks-to-NBC-Bay-Area-about-being-barred-from-using-the-Black-Bear-Diner-for-veteran-meetings-by-NBC-Bay-Area.jpg 853w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-137607\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong>Joe Sigala talks to NBC Bay Area about being barred from using the Black Bear Diner for veteran meetings. (NBC Bay Area)<\/strong><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>NBC Bay area reports that a group of veterans, who have met bi-weekly at the Black Bear Diner for a while, were told by a manager that they could not meet there. This group apparently reserved a room for their biweekly meetings. The diner claimed that the veterans were not respectful and did not show up in the numbers and frequencies for the days they made their reservations.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><b>From NBC Bay Area:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;My therapy is with my brothers. That&#8217;s why we get together because we understand,&#8221; said veteran Joe Sigala.<\/p>\n<p>They informally call themselves &#8220;veterans helping veterans.&#8221; And for the last 10 years, they&#8217;ve been meeting inside the restaurant in a room away from the main dining area.<\/p>\n<p>They need privacy, they say, because of the personal topics they discuss while eating breakfast.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We hug and cry together and that was our therapy,&#8221; said veteran Tim Mermod.<\/p>\n<p>The veterans say the new manager at the diner told them they couldn&#8217;t have that room anymore.<\/p>\n<p>On Wednesday, Parth Mehta, vice president of the Black Bear Diner franchise, said there were complaints that the veterans were rude to staff, and their meetings and attendance numbers were inconsistent.<\/p>\n<p>And that he needs a headcount to make sure the diner has sufficient staffing.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I felt like I felt when I came back from Vietnam. That nobody wanted us, welcomed us home. That&#8217;s terrible,&#8221; said Sigala.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Now to still have things like this pop up and make fictitious statements and derogatory things against us, it&#8217;s not fair and it&#8217;s not right,&#8221; said veteran Hayward Cook.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not sure what happened but there&#8217;s always two sides to every story,&#8221; said Mehta.<\/p>\n<p>The vice president of the diner&#8217;s parent company said he will speak with the local manager and was surprised to hear that the veterans say they gave the restaurant this schedule, assuring there were always at least 20 members who show up to every gathering.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is the first time I hear about the schedule,&#8221; said Mehta.<\/p>\n<p>And the vice president also said he wanted to make one other thing clear &#8212; the veterans are welcome back in the room.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>NBC Bay Area has additional details, and the video, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcbayarea.com\/news\/local\/south-bay\/black-bear-diner-milpitas-war-veterans\/3165006\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NBC Bay area reports that a group of veterans, who have met bi-weekly at the Black &hellip; <a title=\"Northern California diner halts veteran group&#8217;s use of room\" class=\"hm-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/?p=137606\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Northern California diner halts veteran group&#8217;s use of room<\/span>Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":661,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[226,118],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-veterans-in-the-news","category-veterans-issues"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/661"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=137606"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137606\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=137606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=137606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=137606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}