{"id":125374,"date":"2022-04-30T08:40:26","date_gmt":"2022-04-30T12:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/?p=125374"},"modified":"2022-04-30T08:41:38","modified_gmt":"2022-04-30T12:41:38","slug":"am-i-the-a-hole-aita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/?p=125374","title":{"rendered":"Am I the A-Hole? (AITA)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Here’s some social media drama for you.\u00a0 A woman posts a scenario to subreddit’s popular forum – “AmITheA**hole?!?” – and got some interesting responses.\u00a0 “AmITheA**hole?!?” – or AITA as it is sometimes abbreviated – is the modern-day equivalent of “Dear Abby.”<\/p>\n

Apparently, her boyfriend is in the military and they have an arrangement where she can never visit him so all visits have to be him coming to her house.<\/p>\n

Well, on one of these visits he was in the shower so she decides to wear his uniform, then<\/em> takes a photo of herself in uniform… the<\/em>n uploads the photo to Facebook thinking – well, why not?<\/p>\n

Boyfriend returns from the shower and finds out what happened, and gets really pissed, saying he will lose his job among other things.\u00a0 When he found out about the Facebook posting, he got even angrier, accusing her of putting his job at risk for “s**ts and giggles.”<\/p>\n

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Girlfriend didn’t understand his anger, so takes the scenario to social media – because making the spat more public apparently may help solve the argument.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

In the forum “AmITheA**hole” she asked if she was in the wrong for posting a picture of herself wearing her boyfriend’s uniform, earning over 7,500 upvotes and 3,400 comments.<\/p>\n

She says that she’s not sure if she was in the wrong, but that it’s a “bad situation so bear with me.” She said her boyfriend came to visit two days before the post.<\/p>\n

“We’ve been dating for 6 months and we live in different towns. He comes over to visit on weekends but I never been to his hometown and whenever I try to visit he’s always busy,” u\/SanAnt3559 wrote.<\/p>\n

Here is the entire post she made…<\/p>\n

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AITA for posting a picture of myself wearing my boyfriend’s military uniform<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ok, So Like…I don’t know if I’m really the AH here but I do think it’s a bad situation so bear with me.<\/p>\n

This happened 2 days ago. My f25 boyfriend m29 is in the military. we’ve been dating for 6 months and we live in different towns. He comes over to visit on weekends but I never been to his hometown and whenever I try to visit he’s always busy.<\/p>\n

He came over to spend the weekend with and brought his military uniform. He was in the shower while his uniform was sitting on the bed. I felt bored and decided to put it on and took a picture of me wearing it. I then shared it on my Facebook as my “story” and thought nothing of it. But once he found out he blew up and started yelling at me saying I should of never touched his “work stuff”. I was baffled at his reaction I said I was just trying it on but he said that I was being reckless towards his work. when he found out I posted a picture of me in it he lost it completely. He told me he can’t believe I jeaprodized his job for “shits and giggles” and for some internet likes. He was making me nervous so I told him he was overreacting, he kept mumbling that I screwed him over because the uniform had his name tag on it. I asked so what and he said that I don’t get to fuck with his job and sabotage it with how I was acting. We had a fight he grabbed his stuff and went back to his hometown after demanding I take the picture down and wipe it off my phone.<\/p>\n

I been trying to contact him eversince but still got no reply. I left him messages from messanger and he reads them but doesn’t reply.<\/p>\n

AITA? I think I might have messed up but part of me says this was an overreaction on his part.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Surprisingly, some said there was something peculiar about the arrangement and suggested that boyfriend may be married.<\/p>\n

The post got so much feedback it got posted to Newsweek.<\/p>\n

Woman Dragged for Wearing Boyfriend’s Military Uniform in Social Media Pics<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Your mileage may vary on Am I The A**Hole – or YMMV on AITA, but my take-away on this is if you are unsure whether airing your dirty laundry was the right step, air it some more to find your answer.\u00a0 After all – WCGW\u00a0 (What Could Go Wrong)?<\/p>\n

It’s like that old rule in poker – if after 10 minutes you can’t figure out who the sucker is in the room, you are<\/em> the sucker.\u00a0 So, if you post to social media in the AITA forum and still have some doubt – YATA, YATA, YATA.<\/p>\n

Now I know that some of you cannot make an informed judgment without seeing the actual image in question.\u00a0 We could not find it, but in our mind’s eye we believe the following is probably true…<\/p>\n

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