{"id":109114,"date":"2021-01-08T07:00:28","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T12:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valorguardians.com\/blog\/?p=109114"},"modified":"2021-01-07T20:43:09","modified_gmt":"2021-01-08T01:43:09","slug":"last-civil-war-widow-dies-seriously","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.azuse.cloud\/?p=109114","title":{"rendered":"Last Civil War widow dies (seriously)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Helen Viola Jackson in 2017<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Here’s a wild story. The above pictured lady, Helen Jackson, died December 16 at the age of 101. Would you believe that she was a Civil War veteran’s widow? She was. It’s worth noting that more than 155\u00a0years<\/em> have passed since the last shot was fired in the War Between the States, from which point forward nobody could claim Civil War veterancy.<\/p>\n

The last Civil War pensioner Irene Triplett (who we talked about in the Weekend Open Thread here<\/a> [Commissioner Wretched’s weekly post in the comments] and again when she passed away last year in the WOT here<\/a> [ninja’s comment]). The KoB sent in this hard to believe story<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Helen Viola Jackson’s 1936 marriage to James Bolin was unusual to say the least: He was 93 and in declining health, and she was a 17-year-old schoolgirl.<\/p>\n

Bolin was also a Civil War veteran who fought for the Union in the border state of Missouri. Jackson was almost certainly the last remaining widow of a Civil War soldier when she died Dec. 16 at a nursing home in Marshfield, Missouri. She was 101.<\/p>\n

Several Civil War heritage organizations have recognized Jackson\u2019s quiet role in history, one that she hid for all but the final three years of her life, said Nicholas Inman, her pastor and longtime friend. Yet in those final years, Inman said, Jackson embraced the recognition that included a spot on the Missouri Walk of Fame and countless cards and letters from well-wishers.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt was sort of a healing process for Helen: that something she thought would be kind of a scarlet letter would be celebrated in her later years,\u201d Inman said.<\/p>\n

Jackson grew up one of 10 children in the tiny southwestern Missouri town of Niangua, near Marshfield. Bolin, a widower who had served as a private in the 14th Missouri Cavalry during the Civil War seven decades earlier, lived nearby.<\/p>\n

Jackson\u2019s father volunteered his teenage daughter to stop by Bolin\u2019s home each day to provide care and help with chores. To pay back her kindness, Bolin offered to marry Jackson, which would allow her to receive his soldier’s pension after his death, a compelling offer in the context of the Great Depression.<\/p>\n

Jackson agreed in large part because \u201cshe felt her daily care was prolonging his life,\u201d Inman said.<\/p>\n

They wed on Sept. 4, 1936, at his home. Throughout their three years of marriage there was no intimacy and she never lived with him. She never told her parents, her siblings or anyone else about the wedding. She never remarried, spending decades \u201charboring this secret that had to be eating her alive,\u201d Inman said.<\/p>\n

After Bolin\u2019s death in 1939, she did not seek his pension.<\/p>\n

She also realized the stigma and potential scandal of a teenager wedding a man in his 90s, regardless of her reason. In an oral history recording in 2018, Jackson said she never spoke of the wedding to protect Bolin’s reputation as well as her own.<\/p>\n

\u201cI had great respect for Mr. Bolin, and I did not want him to be hurt by the scorn of wagging tongues,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

Inman and Jackson were longtime friends. She was a charter member of the Methodist church where he serves as pastor. One day in December 2017, she told Inman about her secret marriage to a much older man. She mentioned in passing that he fought in the Civil War.<\/p>\n

\u201cI said, \u2018What? Back up about that. What do you mean he was in the Civil War?\u2019\u201d Inman said.<\/p>\n

Inman checked into her story and found that everything she told him was \u201cspot on.\u201d Officials at Wilson\u2019s Creek National Battlefield sent him copies of Bolin\u2019s service information. She identified where he was buried, in Niangua.<\/p>\n

She also kept a Bible that he gave her \u2014 in which he wrote about their marriage. Those written words were good enough for the Sons of Union Veterans of the Civil War and other heritage organizations to recognize Jackson\u2019s place in history.<\/p>\n

After a lifetime of avoiding her past, Jackson embraced it in her final years, Inman said. She spoke to schoolchildren and had a Facebook page dedicated to her. She enjoyed getting cards and letters.<\/p>\n

She also found new peace. A stoic nature that kept her from shedding tears at her own siblings’ funerals seemed to evaporate.<\/p>\n

After Bolin\u2019s relatives found out about Jackson’s role in his life, they went to the nursing home and presented her with a framed photo of him.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe broke down and cried,\u201d Inman recalled. \u201cShe kept touching the frame and said, \u2018This is the only man who ever loved me.\u2019\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Got dusty in here real quick there at the end. Amazing story.<\/p>\n

The last confirmed Civil War veteran (from either side) to die was Union Drummer Boy Albert Woolson (1850-1956). The last combat veteran of the war was Union Private James Hard (1843-1953), who had seen action at the battles of First Bull Run, Antietam, Chancellorsville, and Fredericksburg.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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