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Justin Sales; phony Airman

by Jonn Lilyea••171

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The folks at Military Phonies found this low-grade phony, Justin Sales, in Hastings, Nebraska, who just uses his lies for veteran job preferences and reduced veteran rates for housing, etc. here’s a screen shot of his LinkedIn profile;

Sales claims

It looks like he was married to a member of the Air Force and after the divorce, he missed his “dependa” status, but not enough to sign on the line himself. The Air Force says “Who?”

Sales FOIA

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171 thoughts on “Justin Sales; phony Airman”

      2. then, you probably know Poopdeck Paul, Chickenman, Mr. Belvedere, Milky the Clown from Twin Pines, the Faygo Kid

  2. Fuck you shitstain.
    Nice job pussy riding your ex-wife’s coattails.
    She has a bigger dick and balls than you ever will.

    SMSgt says ┌∩┐(ಠ_ಠ)┌∩┐

      1. BOOM! Fuck you x2 you worthless dipshit. First a fake MP yesterday and now your sorry lying ass. You dipshits are ruining my week. You are a festering boil on the ass of humanity and like a pile of dog shit you need to dry up and blow away in the wind.
        Cocksucker.

    3. Sniveling snot-spined wino taint-sniffing booger-munching bedwetting candyassed roach shit!

  3. go figure?, he claims while on active duty he worked as a financial consultant at the same time a real wonder of wonders, when I was on active duty in the USAF, their was no time for a 2nd job, I worked to many hours fixing F-111’s and deploying, if I did make side money , it was fixing on the side, officers MG and Triumph cars since I do know whole lot about them having owned a few even before I joined the USAF and the pilots for the most part didn’t

    1. Had a 1960 TR3A I picked up in K-Bay in the late ’80s. Man do I miss that car…

      Know where I can pick up another TR (pre TR4) in decent shape?

      1. the last time I knew of a TR3A for sale was a white fully restored one at Prestige Motors on Speedwell Ave in Morristown, NJ
        My preference as far as Triumphs are concerned is the TR-6 or even a TR-4A with the independent rear suspension or a 250,the 250,s in England were fuel injected which would be the preferred model, but here in the USA they were carbureted with twin side draughts.
        My 1st British roadster was a 59 Austin Heally 100-6 I bought for $850 back in 1971, fixed it up a bit and then sold it for $1500 in 1973, wish I still had that one, I see them going for unrestored in the 5 figure range these days also had a couple of MGB’s , I liked the GT version more than the tourer I’ve also worked on an MGA ground up full restoration with a buddy and had a squadron commander who found out about my talent and had a 53 MGTF I worked on regularly back in 1974-77
        You can also get in touch with John at University Motors in Michigan, that guy is super knowledgeable and may know of where a TR3A is but he does specialize primarily in MG’s

  5. Well well..according to this website, he’s the Sales Floor Manager.

    I wonder if the management there in Hastings Nebraska at the Jerry Spady Chevrolet GMC Cadillac at 2750 Osborne Drive East, Hastings, NE 68901 Sales:(402) 902-4652 Service:(402) 902-4647
    needs a heads up because maybe this douchenozzle used his fake service to obtain a job??

    His photo is there for all to see. (Same as Jonn’s photo above)

    http://www.spadygm.com/Staff

    1. Unemployed in 3 – 2 – 1 … BOOM!

      Next he’ll be playing the PTSD card.

      Psychologist: You indicate you have PTSD. Is that true?

      Douche: Yes

      Psychologist: How did you get PTSD?

      Douche: My wife left me.

      Psychologist: Was it b/c you were a douche and a waste of space?

      Douche: Yes, I suppose it was.

      Psychologist: Then that’s not PTSD. It’s your wife figuring out you’re a loser and she could do better. All it proves is you are a pussy. Now, get out.

    3. Chip…By now you know you can’t tempt us without somebody following up a lead. Just finished calling the number, spoke with the Sales Mgr. named Scott. He was not argumentative, but explained calling him was not the avenue to take. He said anyone interested should call the guy personally. He then said he had seen a copy of the DD 214 in question, to which I responded these days false DD 214’s are all around. This was after I pointed out the TAH web site and the fact that there is a letter from the Dept. of the Air Force stating this POSER POS never served in the Air Force. Scott’s response was that letter could well be a fake and that he believed the entire story on TAH was all fake.
      I finished the call by telling Scott I’d let Jonn know what he said.

      IMHO, good liars are hard to come by these days.
      If the GOOD LIAR is making you money, absolutely defend him until the day he ends up going to jail.

      My final comment was to offer him a bet that this POS would end up being exposed as a liar who had never served in the military as he claimed. Give him credit…he did not take that bet.

      Hope he looks on this site. Probably won’t matter that Mr. Shit for Brains claims HE is the sales manager. I can’t understand how someone who’s entire family (Scott stated in the phone conversation) served in the Armed Forces…..is not concerned about having a phony POSER working for him. IMHO, Scott does NOT want to know the truth which apparently does not matter as long as the guy is making the dealership money.

      2. So, what you are saying is that Scott Harwick, The Sales Manager / Business Manager at Jerry Spady Chevrolet GMC Cadillac, is fine with Justin Sales passing himself off as a veteran?

        Scott Harwick at Jerry Spady Chevrolet GMC Cadillac probably feels it is fine as long as the customer does not get wind of it.

        What if some of us left reviews at: https://www.facebook.com/jerryspady.cadillacgmc/?ref=br_rs&pnref=lhc

        Or sent a PM to the owner at: https://www.facebook.com/jerry.spady.1

        You think that Scott Harwick, The Sales Manager / Business Manager at Jerry Spady Chevrolet GMC Cadillac would feel differently if some light was shone on his views?

        This relates to integrity. If someone is a known liar, would you trust the information you were being provided when they are making a sale to you?

        1. They have killed the reviews on their Facebook Page. Scotty said the Owner has been contacted as well as the Sales Manager BUT THE COMMENTS ON *THEIR POSTS* are still open.
          Apparently Justin is trying to threaten family members of Scotty’s staff and Legal Actions.
          Poser 101!!

        2. D C….you make some good points. Take a look at what Chip writes below. Not a chance in Hell I’d pay much attention to anyone in the car selling business. But in this case, Scott said NOTHING that would be cause for Jerkoff, I mean Justin, to get his panties in a wad. Make that his ex-wife’s panties. Seriously doubt this POS wears panties…more likely crotchless work clothes. If a male has no balls, he probably has no Johnson.
          And THANKS to Chip also.

          Please take a look back at Macintosh post.

        1. Hey! I was a recruiter. Not arguing your point, just letting you know that I was a recruiter.

      4. Hey there, I left my ex-husband for being a liar & cheat. I have multiple sclerosis & basically gave up on me & took my two kids I have not seen going on 4 years. He is a Sheriff deputy/investigatior. He tells everyone that he is a Marine. He went to Boot Camp & failed because he lied about not having asthma. He is a Dis-honorable Marine. Has tattoo on him of Marine symbol on his forearm for attention. Army took him & chickened out where he used my sickness to get out with an Honorable discharge. He used that DD-214 to get the job. What can I do to make this fair & right?

        Plus, this asswipe belongs in the same detention center as my ex.

  6. If he used fake vet status to get a job, that pisses me off. I never was asked nor did I volunteer the info because it was about the job, nothing else. Employers are being encouraged to hire vets and people like this displace real vets who need those jobs.

    I can only say I’m glad I’m out of the work force completely.

    1. Other vets are getting denied work because of these fraudsters. I bet this is happening a lot more than we’ll ever know. I caught some bozo at my work using the computer to fake a bachelors degree on an employment application. He was so stupid that he tried to claim he had a B.S. in Psychology from a community college that doesn’t offer a bachelors.

      1. I wonder, too, how many REAL veterans are denied employment b/c of these buttwipes? One would be too many. I wonder how many employers ask for a 214 or VA card? If the applicant states he wants veteran preference, I think it would be legal to ask for proof. That would at least force the posers to gundeck a 214.

        1. I wonder where the vet who DIDN’T get the job went to work and is he doing well financially? Just a thought. Hate to see real vets screwed. They/We earned some consideration.

  7. He was AD in the USAF from Jan 2003 to Feb 2009 AND worked at Big Country Ford from Jan 2003 to Dec 2008? Oh, and he was working on his BA from 2004 – 2008. So, from 04-08 he worked two jobs, one in the USAF, took college courses, and earned a degree. Sure, no question. I believe it.

    1. I did it.
      Although I was Reserve.
      I worked from 4am to noon at a grocery store, went to school 4 nights a week, did reserve duty on the weekends and then also made extra money doing Karaoke in bars for $$$ for about 5 years.
      so totally legit.
      /Well my experience, not this dickbag.

      1. I held down three jobs while I was in medical school. One of them was full time and the other two were part time.

        It was OK until final exams. Since I was in law school as well the exams came on the same day as my med school final exams.

        Oh yeah… I was also active duty.

        Sometimes a man got to do what he got to do to get it done.

        1. Confused ???? So when did you squeeze in time for strippers? You need to work on priorities bro.

        2. I empathize, I was working full time and doing an MBA while preparing for Step-1. Geebus…..I hardly had time for whiskey.

          1. I hate stumbling in after a night out of heavy drinking and stuffing ones down a strippers G-string and have to take a comprehensive exam first thing in the morning… then be at work by 0800.

            It’s next to impossible to explain away stripper glitter. C’mon, you know what I’m talking about.

            1. Tying it all into a mnemonic to remember denovo purine synthesis was the hardest part.

              1. Many a morning I had to recite a diagram of the hexose monophosphate shunt while my body converted remaining alcohol to acetaldehyde. At first I thought I overwhelmed all the cytochrome P450 in my body, all while rubbing the stripper glitter from my eyes.

                “Bust a hump” I says to myself, for I needed to get down to the car dealership. Those F-150’s weren’t going to sell themselves.

              1. I used to work as an actor in adult films to put myself through medical school.

                It worked out great but now when I give someone a shot I pull it out at the last second and spray it all over them.

  10. Would you buy a used car from this man? Even before we knew he was a lying, shit stain, cocksucker?

  11. For those out there who are familiar with the old FRG(Germany), I know there’s just got to be a few jokes lurking in the wings for someone who claims to be a “Tool Specialist” and a “Senior (Manhole) Inspector” at Manheim. (Mannheim)

    For those unfamiliar with Mannheim, it was to our forces in West Germany what the LBJ (Long Binh Jail) was to Vietnam.

    1. Last I heard it was still there. We sent a shitbird from our unit in A-stan there to in 2006 serve his CM Sentence before his Big Chicken Dinner.

  12. I just had a discussion with him over the phone.
    He claims that he served for 1.5 years in the Air Force in 03 to 04.
    He used the normal excuses blaming it on everyone except himself.
    He also claimed that he was just fired from his job because of this. And that he has 6 kids at home to feed.
    He is supposed to be sending us a copy of his dd-214 and a copy of his Veterans ID card.
    He soon found out that I’m not a pleasant person to piss off. Especially when he involves family members of our admins. The idiot called one of our admins. wife’s work place.

    1. Everything was fine until you put in ‘six kids’, Scotty.

      I really had to work hard to avoid spraying ice tea all over my desk.

      It’s just the mental image of that widget up there humping anything more alive than an empty toilet paper cardboard roll that got to me.

      1. Evidently you and I are the only two who rented the infamous “Justin Does Charmin”. Toilet bowl humor sure gets stale quickly.

      2. Not sure how he’d make it work, jarhead. So little, so tiny, so much like a caterpillar… or an earthworm segment.

        Did you know that if earthworms can’t find each other to mate, they mate with themselves? It’s true.

    2. He can shove that veterans ID card up his ass if he thinks that’s verification. The VA doesn’t do a very good job of vetting at times. I’d be curious to see his 214 once he downloads a blank and fills it out. I hope he doesn’t screw it up too bad as there are enough USAF people here to pick it apart.
      Dipshit

    1. Yeah, about 3 hours ago I replied to your post above D.C.

      I also was probably blocked because until a little while ago, you could still post to comments on *THEIR* posts.
      That may have changed as well.

      I’m not believing a thing he said to Scotty (See post above this one) until it’s proven.

      He was busted and he’s using the poser pity party card.

      FUCK HIM.

  15. No reason to call someone’s wife Justin. Shit, call me bro, in fact blame the whole damn thing on me. I accept full responsibility.

    I am not a woman and everything, but who knows…you just might be able to bring the bitch out. Kinda scary knowing you might actually do something. Nah, probably not.

    Here pussy, pussy, pussy, I got sometin for ya.

    812-493-5735

  16. Tool Specialist and Senior “Manhole” Inspector.

    I believe those as he appears to have experience.

    I love the six kid part.

    Lyin’ Lance McCormick, you are not alone…..

    2. He can always sling software for a “proud woman owned” company formerly located on Wilson Lane in Bethesda, or head down to Merritt Island Florida and enrol in the All Points Logistics Executive Development Program.

  19. Still waiting on that dd-214 and Veterans ID card that he promised to send us. ( hours ago )
    I bet he won’t answer the phone anymore for me either. OR, he’ll answer and give me some lame excuse. You know the type. He can’t send it because his ex-wife used it to line the cats litter box.

    2. Another ball sack working,”Call of Booty”, SV liar caught in the act…

      Sucks to be you, Justin Sales!

  26. I just got off the phone with this idiot. He is a pathological liar big time. He did admit to me that he never served in the armed forces. He had all kinds of excuses for his actions which went into one ear and out the other. He tried a couple lines straight out of POSer tactics 101. He is now going to retain an attorney after he tried telling me that he had already talk with his lawyer. Told me that his attorney said it would be okay to contact me and tell his side of the story. That went over like a lead balloon for him.
    He was going to make an apology on his Blog of Shame until I told him that the exposure would never be removed.
    He is watching this site and military phonies very closely. But he is just too much of a pussy to make any comments or apologize.
    Bottom line. He’s sorry because he got caught.

    1. I wish Justin Sales, phony Airman had the balls to show up here on TAH, but we all know that he is a fucking pussy.

      On the bright side, Justin Sales, phony Airman has a future in sucking cock behind dumpsters for pennies on the dollar like many before him that have been sorry for getting caught.

    2. So you mean to tell me he was claiming to have cards. Provide proof, then just say oops I sorry I lied ;/ WOW and a lawyer too…..HE is getting off so easy….so did he get fired or did those cocksuckers from his job keep this pile of shit?? They should be blacklisted as phony veteran supporters….I say he should take his lying, shit brick piece of donkeydick and bend over and take it up the ass like I’m sure he is used too. And so should that piece of shit dealership. The way I see it he is done. Over, fin, he would have to move out of that town and start again….hey dude maybe you should go back to your ex and beg her for her forgiveness. You can beg and plead and cry your sorry ass and ask her to change your shitty diaper….boo hoo …jackoff….you don’t deserve anything but what you landed your own self in…….BULLSHIT

  27. As a 23 year, retired, disabled USAF/USAFR Senior Master Sergeant, I ripped my OWN Airmen a lessor ass than what I want to do to this lying TARD. Justin, you want a personal piece of ME? once Scotty is done? COUNT. MY. 8. STRIPES.
    I’M GOING TO CLIMB UP YOUR ASS AND GIVE YOU AN INTERNET AND PERSONAL LOBOTOMY. Get Ready For My Boot.

    1. Hey IDC SARC,
      Care to find his Ex, tie him up (not literally, of course) and make her scream “JODY!!” in front of him?!?!??!?

      Just a thought.
      Makes me feel better that she has dumped this turd.

      I wish I knew who she was and I’ve give her SNCO high five and support and give her a hug.

      I feel bad for her that she had a moment of young Airman brain damage

      1. She is a really good friend of mine and the shit he has put her through is inexplicable. I cannot believe what a shit scum he is and how he continues to get away with this stuff. Luckily, though, his false identity has been revealed. Knowing everything his ex-wife (my friend) has been through, I am glad to see karma is finally kicking his sorry ass.

        1. Wow, you say she is a friend of yours? How is she fairing through all of this. I can only imagine the sorrow this has caused her. I’m so sorry this happened to her. From your tone it seems like you are extremely angry. Whoever she is, I hope the kids and her are ok. When you speak to her next time please tell her their is a whole community who supports her. Praying for her family.

        2. Wow, you say she is a friend of yours? How is she fairing through all of this. I can only imagine the sorrow this has caused her. I’m so sorry this happened to her. From your tone it seems like you are extremely angry. Whoever she is, I hope the kids and her are ok. When you speak to her next time please tell her there is a whole community who supports her. Praying for her family.

        3. I need to speak with Gabby. It’s urgent! I’m Kenneth Tyson Fesuluai. My wife is with Justin. They have fled the jurisdiction of the court in Grand Island, NE. I need to find them. We believe they are in Alabama. They practically kidnapped my 3 children. Please respond ASAP!

    2. He also claims that someone is e-mailing his mother about this. I told him to forward those e-mails to me. his excuse was that he wasn’t going to give me his mother’s e-mail. So how did anyone else in our community find her e-mail? He had plenty of excuses. But no proof to back them up.

      1. Time to come clean. Assuming I got the right email address, then I’m the one who emailed his mother. Easy to find her email address……..
        I Googled the following: “Seeking mother of a low down POS who married a woman with bigger balls than he, all while she served in the Air Force. The mother who’s candy ass son blows car dealer customers knows he looks like a duck, walks (waddles) like a duck, quacks like a duck, what he does to the dealership customers’ dicks actually rhymes with the name duck, and best of all smells like a duck. Albeit, still considered a schmuck who doesn’t give a fuck, and would blow ANYBODY for a buck.”
        In response to my inquiry, I received the following:….”You and your bully friends leave my baby alone. Just because he comes over every day to continue breast feeding at his age, he is still my tit-sucking baby. He may have forgotten it was his ex, and NOT him who served in the Air Force. That little slip up can happen to anyone. PLEASE overlook his convoluted stories. They take years to bring them to the believable status. Meanwhile you may call him a reformed auto sales person seeking the truth. I call him my little titty muncher!”

        1. It’s assholes like him that made them change the name of Air Force Enlisted Wives Club to Air Force Enlisted Spouses Club. They had no real complaints about him, though, since he never left the toilet seat up when he took a piss.

      2. Yeah.

        The Cody Stermer defense.

        Make it about people that no one in hell would contact. All the while bringing them into it to be used a shield.

        Scumbag.

    3. Speaking of drain bamage, it’s E-8 and 7 stripes. Sheesh.
      This shithead has me so pissed off I can’t type straight.

      1. We knew what you meant ChipNASA! Don’t give yourself an aneurysm over this cocksucker.

  28. Was it worth it justin sales????? Do you sleep better at night knowing you only tell whole lies and half truths…..did it get you off to take credit from someone that did the work for you and tell me, are you happy now? It’s a damn shame and a sad life for someone like you who preys on the weak and yet crumbles under the true force of what it means to have honor, loyalty and respect. Good job loser…..you won everything now….your face will always remain in the hall of fame of losers…..may you one day truly repent for all your indescretions. You are a bully and a poor excuse for a human being. You cheat your way to get what you want and never seem to have any regard for others. While everyone here is chewing you up and spitting you out, I would wonder, how does your ex wife feel about all of this? If I was her, I would say she did the right thing by leaving your stupid ass behind. You know most times I see losers like you giving us hard earned veterans a bad name. To me your somewhere between a cockroach and that nasty white shit that accumulates in the corner of some crack heads mouth. God forgive the next person that comes across your sorry ass. They could only sooner wish for your slow painful death. For shame Justin Sales. Do you have family? How would they feel?
    Don’t answer that…..if they had half a mind they wouldn’t a knowledge your existence. ….young men and women died for the same privelage you lied about. Your ex wife gave up her freedom for your pathetic piece of shit ass and this is the thanks she gets….man nuff said….

  29. Is it me or does it seem like this asshole isn’t feeling what it really means to feel the pain. EVERYONE NEEDS TO SHARE THIS WITH ALL YOUR FRIENDS ON FACEBOOK. LET’S MAKE THAT DEALERSHIP REALLY REGRET SUPPORTING THIS ASSWIPE.

    Let’s see how far we can spread the word

    1. I think it would be best to not fault the car dealership for hiring him. He lied to them, just as he’s done with everyone else.

      I’m sure he’s no longer employed there and it’s best to leave THEM out of the mix. THEY are not at fault.

  30. Mr. Sales is no longer working at our dealership. The Jerry Spady team is proud of our long history and support our veterans. God bless our troops.

    1. Thanks for the Follow up Matt.

      Please tell everyone in management and Mr Spady we appreciate their appropriate response to this situation.

      I know I can’t speak for anyone else here but Thanks to you and Mr Spady for doing the right thing.

      1. Chip you can speak for me anyday. That’s the same sentiment I have. Thank you Jerry Spady team. I’m relieved this issue was handled in the most appropriate way. I am so sorry that you were all deceived but thanks for all your support for our troops.

  31. Semper fucking Fi! I just recently heard about this. He pissed somebody off besides me obviously. He’s my Jody on top of all this. He lies and lies and lies. Fuck him. He doesn’t support his own kids let alone mine. My soon to be ex gets plenty of child support from me on top of free benefits, she hasn’t worked since 2013! Luckily my children and I get court ordered visitation. They need a real father and I work everyday to be their support and example. I’m Kenneth Tyson Fesuluai, former Sgt of Marines and NE guardsmen. Thank you guys!

    https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10205491535315842&id=1474954374&set=p.10205491535315842

  32. Idealization

    During this phase a narcissist is very loving and is on his/ her best behavior. A narcissist can be extremely charming and loving, which often makes a person fall head over heels in love with them or feel they would be crazy to not love them. In the beginning I felt my ex cared for me more than I cared for him but I had never been loved like that in my life and that is very hard to walk away from. I was perfect in his eyes, to quote him, “Don’t ever change, I love you just the way you are.”

    If a narcissist is cheating on his or her present partner with a new lover, it is often more due to the actions of the narcissist than the lover that the relationship started in a first place. While pursuing a new lover, a narcissist is often claiming that he is very unhappy in his/her current relationship, the woman takes him for granted, abuses his good nature and he is carrying the load financially, in the home and emotionally. He will say he has tried and tried and done his grieving of the relationship long ago. He has had to stay because he’s afraid she’ll try to kill herself if he leaves, or she just won’t accept that its over. He is about to get a divorce/separate, has never felt as strongly towards anyone else as he or she is now feeling towards the new lover, etc. If you are the married one he will become your best friend and perhaps even befriend your husband, he will point out how your husband takes you for granted, tell you he wishes he had a woman like you, he will be your perfect match, totally into you, always so happy to see you, wanting to know all about you, your hopes and dreams, you will feel attractive, appreciated, it will be exciting, his romantic gestures will take your breath away, the love-making like nothing you have ever experienced before, you will feel like the sexiest most desirable woman on earth. You will feel you must have this man in your life, you can face anything as long as he has you in his arms. It is intoxicating, you can not believe your good fortune to meet this wonderful man and he loves YOU. A narcissist knows how to say all the right things to make the other person fall hard. The victim often times gives up a perfectly good marriage, moves to be with the narcissist leaving their support network, friends and family behind. They give up an excellent job, invest with the narcissist and are blinded by love; willing to do anything to be with the “love of their life” believing what the narcissist is telling them, that they are soul mates and they have the kind of love fantasies and movies are made of.

    Unfortunately this “honeymoon” period never lasts for long. Once the narcissist feels the victim is fully committed they soon grows bored and restless and starts to look for another provider of a narcissistic supply. This is when a narcissist enters the devaluation phase. This is when the victim begins to think that if they just love the narcissist well enough he will go back to the loving attentive man they met. What no one seems to realize is; the narcissist doesn’t get off on your love and admiration, he feeds off of your pain.
    Devaluation

    During this phase the behavior of a narcissist changes, he becomes cold and uncaring almost overnight. this is when the “mask drops” and you see the real person. The narcissist no longer tells you how much he or she loves you, but instead becomes increasingly critical towards you. Suddenly he/she finds all sorts of flaws in your behavior and possibly also in the way you look. You start to feel increasingly unhappy and depressed, because you have no idea what you have done to deserve to be treated this way. You try to “make him or her love you again”, however nothing you do seems to be good enough and what they want seems to change with the wind. He accuses you of things you aren’t thinking or doing, is controlling, twists your words, where once you could talk about anything calmly and rationally, now every thing turns into a fight. He accuses you of being paranoid,  yet they are snooping through your phone and computer, (my ex even had a tracking device somewhere on my vehicle, I found a hidden camera and his sister found a wire running from the trailer to the barn that had a speaker on the end). They know they are out to destroy you, so assume you must be doing the same thing and want to make sure they get you before you get them.Whatever the narcissist accuses the victim of doing is more than likely what they are doing and worse.

    A rule to remember; If their lips are moving, they are lying. They can look you right in the eye and tell you a lie, they can cry real tears and could get an academy award for their acting abilities.

    They may be loving in public and then treat the soon-to-be-ex with disdain when they get home, yet expect the victim to stay loving and giving until the narcissist is firmly enmeshed in their new relationship. It is a very confusing time for the victim, one minute they are treated with disgust and the next the narcissist is loving, they are blamed for the problems in the relationship but anything they do to  mend the fences is never good enough. (I went years not knowing if we were broken up or a couple, he could tear me to shreds in the morning before he left for work and come home from work like nothing ever happened). The victim is accused of causing conflict, yet if they give in to the narcissist they are treated even worse.

    You find yourself walking on eggshells for fear of sending him into a rage. Everything is your fault, you are paranoid, too sensitive, causing drama and you should know he hates drama. More than likely some addiction like obsessively watching porn has surfaced or he forces you to perform sex acts you aren’t comfortable with, the great sex you once had is a distant memory unless he is trying to win you over after a really bad fight. Female narcissist often use sex as a weapon, withholding or seducing to manipulate the man. Speaking of which they have an uncanny ability to sense when you have had enough and are ready to leave and will turn back into the sweet, appreciative, loving partner you fell in love with just long enough to reel you back in.

    During this phase a narcissist may start to look for another provider of a narcissistic supply and may end up cheating or having an affair, however still keeping the current spouse hooked, just in case the new relationship does not work out the way the narcissist is hoping. The narcissist gets a huge ego boost from thinking that two people (the current spouse and the secret lover) are “madly in love” with them.  Plus they get off on being able to pull something off right under the victim’s nose. The narcissist will fly into a rage that you could possibly think he would ever cheat on you and turn the tables so you end up apologizing for accusing them or for some other crime you committed months or years ago. Their crimes are brushed under the carpet while yours are always brought up and never forgiven, even crimes you didn’t commit or even think about committing. (my ex said he screwed around because I could have taken a different man home every night. I said, Key word is “could”
    They often play one against the other creating triangulation, and then sit back and watch the show. Nothing feeds the ego like having two lovers vying for your affections; doing the “pick me” dance.  Often times they will leave evidence of their cheating around for you to find because your pain serves up such delicious narcissistic supply.Discarding

    During the discarding phase the narcissist becomes totally indifferent to the needs or pain of the victim.  Once the victim is no longer useful to the N they discard them like yesterday’s garbage. When a narcissist reaches this phase, there is no chance to reason with a narcissist.

    Many victims will say that the discard “came out of the blue” everything was fine and then the narcissist sent an email saying it was over, or the victim is thrown out of the house with nothing, and the narcissist is immediately involved with “the love of their life” and the victim is a psycho bitch or abusive asshole. But when you talk to the victim it comes out that there were signs but the narcissist denied their suspicions, accused them of not loving them enough, made them feel if they only did this……… or that………… things would go back to the way they were. There had been abuse but the victim had just gotten so used to the N being hot and cold, the discord had just become “the way they were” and they believed the narcissist would never truly leave them. Then the victim discovers the narcissist was planning their exit for a long time, has been slandering the victim behind their back, hiding money, and has the victim’s replacement lined up.

    Once the narcissist drains his supply, the supply refuses to comply with his demands or the N finds better supply he is ready to move on and if they don’t have new supply lined up they set out to find a new source of NS. At this point he is obvious in his infidelity, short tempered and generally acts as if he hates sharing his air with you. The narcissist picks their love interest by what they have to offer, it might have been a roof over their head, the reputation of the victim, perhaps to advance their career, a parent for their child, status in the community, or something as simply as sex.

    If you try to beg a narcissist to get back together with you, you are only feeding their ego and providing him or her with a transient source of a narcissistic supply. The narcissist wants you devastated at the thought of losing them and most victims ends up drained, confused, with their confidence and self-esteem in shreds. A feeling of doom pervades everything in their life and many suffer from PTSD. There is no way to have an amicable split from a narcissist. When a narcissist is done with you he is not happy to just walk away, he wants to destroy you and your reputation. He will turn your friends and your own family against you. If you have children he will turn them against you, he will even go so far as to try to get you fired, arrested on trumped-up charges, victims have even been committed to mental institutions because of the vicious actions of a narcissist.

    Out of loyalty the victim didn’t talk behind the narcissist’s back so no one believes them when they try to explain what went on in the relationship. The narcissist has already told everyone who will listen that the victim is a paranoid psychopath who has made their life hell, so anything the victim says is taken as being vindictive and they are the psycho liar the N claims them to be. The narcissist must win, and that means they must take everything from the victim, leaving them with nothing to rebuild their lives. In their minds if you are of no use to them you are worthless. It is at this point the narcissist will have no qualms about killing you and the victim should be very careful (there is a free safety plan download at the top of the blog).

    He/she will take great pleasure in rubbing your nose in his new relationship and blame you for the relationship failing. He will say how he has met the love of his life, she is calm and rational, they are soul mates and the new man or woman will be smug about They will taunt you to kill yourself, accuse you to your face of doing exactly what they did to you, twist the facts to make themselves look the victim, they will never admit to any fault in the relationship and the victim ends up friendless with no support system because the narcissist carefully planned his/her exit and will just deny deny deny any of the victim’s claims of abuse. It is the victim’s worst nightmare, like they stepped into the twilight zone and are helpless against the vindictiveness of the narc. After all who can believe anyone can be that cruel and conniving. That is why only someone who has been there can understand and believe the victim.

    THEN, just when you are starting to heal and get your legs under you he will pop back into your life, professing his love, tears and all, apologizing for everything he ever did and you believe your prayers have been answered, the man you fell in love with is back and you fall lovingly into his arms. The arms of the devil. As he holds you telling you how much he loves you and how sorry he is, he is secretly laughing and giving himself a pat on the back for being so clever and irresistible, and planning how he will punish you for being so stupid as to believe him. In his mind you deserve to be punished for your gullibility and he feels superior to have that kind of control over you. The cycle begins again only much worse this time.

    Good luck shannon

  33. I remember this guy. He used to live near me when he was stationed with his wife…yea I always felt I could never really trust him. Looks like all my suspicions have been comfirmed. It’s sad though. You would think he would have learned his lesson a long time ago plus he was always cheating too ( all talks by neighbors). His wife seemed like a hard ass and he was always complaining about how she didn’t like to make friends because she had been screwed over by so many people. I didn’t get it but it’s all making sense now. I knew he was good at what he did but I just never thought he could get himself into this kind of mess. Wow, people never cease to amaze me. Wow I hope he finds himself one day. His kids need a good father in their lives and this example provides such a terrible model. Hey justin praying for you man, I never thought you would do something like this let alone cheat and abandon your beautiful wife and kids…..the OW is never worth it. Believe me when I say that other person you are with just isn’t worth what God has waiting on you. AND JUSTIN if your reading this, I can only imagine what life must be like for you. Go home man. Do right. Find yourself again. This life your leading just isn’t right. You can not build your happiness on other people’s misery. Your relationship with God is seriously lacking and that relationship you think you have with this other lady is just doomed before it began but you knew that. Hey man you know who I am hit me up if you need help but understand this I can only provide you with my advice. You have to be the one that seeks the right path.

  35. What were you thinking you sick freak. How could just lie and be OK and sleep at night. You are someone who deserves everything you get. Man its only a ,tater of time before you and that worthless piece of shit your with fall hard. You need tomvomah3ad and just consider yourself done, where are your ,id’s I al, of this? Why are you so selfish and why dear God why is this stupid bitch stil, following your dumbass…..she is more stupid than you but oh well right….she has the money…you have no job…..so of course you will continue to siffen whatever you can….do yourself a favor kill yoirself…….you are what the scum of the earth are made of…….you make me sick and you will not ever ever ever amount to anything in your life…..,eep that piece of shit female your with in your life….even that fantasy wears out….where are your kids you piece of shit why are you still holding onto garbage….it’s obvious you left someone like your wife who was worth more than this piece of shit you choice. …..you are stupid…..a d worse yet this rep you formulated will follow you wherever you go……good luck jack off. ….you deserve every fucking piece of shit you get start g with that stupid hoe your with……fuck you ate a dumbass….I’m gonna make sure your stupid ass is found by every state you run too. …you are the boil on humanity’s butt. ….oh and whoever you are mistress who will never be more you need to choke AZ wsll…..u will always be a chicken head so ur future ai t so bright either God you both make me sick

  36. JUSTIN IS NOTHING MORE THAN A COCKROACH SUCKING PIECE OF SHIT WHO NEEDS TO BE PUT OUT OF HIS MISERY…..HE DESERVES ES TO LIVE OUT A LIFE OF OBSCURITY. ….AND TO THE PIECE OF EQUAL SHIT HE IS WITH HOW DARE YOU…HOW COULD YOU JUST KILL 2 FAMILIES. HOW CA. YOU NOT EVEN SEE YOUR THE PAWN IN ALL,OF THIS…..HE WILL LEAVE YOU. …YEA G
    HE PRO USES YOU WON’T BUT THAT’S HOW COCKSUCKERS LIKE HIM OPERATE……FOR ALL,THE PAIN YOU CONTRIBUTED TO THESE TWO FAMILIES…MAY YOU FEEL THE PAIN TEN TIMES WORSE……….JUSTIN YOU FUCKING SUCK A BIG DICK MAN….YOUR GONNA GET EVERYTHING WHAT’S COMING TO YOU SOON

  37. Sometimes you will be the loser and so,e times you will be the victor…..justin…..you chose and made a decision to leave and make a life with a married woman….you don’t know me. But I promise I know you….whoever this trick is…I hope she knows she is reaching her expiration date…..it’s funny because you were always this cocky piece of shit ……you had a family that loved you yet you chose to steal and covet so eine else’s…….do you really think no one is gonna a find out……you made friends with me and unfortunately for you I just know to many people to bury you professional wise….I always knew you were dogshit…but this story just helps me prove my point….you better pray you don’t cross my path cus I promise your gonna lose….not a threat it’s just that you have a lot to pay for…..soooooooooooooooooooooooo run forest run……son let me find you and that scuzz bucket your with…..you will only wish you went back in time…..look a lesson is being learned and because I know your beautiful wife I can only say you fucked up….hey leave that cowshit your with or I will personally contact her and let her in on all the scams your involved with…..starting with the weight you pushed….back in the day. …when you were selling sticks and stems..?…yea try me bitch your world is just starting to cave in

  38. If fires could burn and the floor beneath you could shatter
    I would hope that it turns you into nothing more than a pile of matter
    Your lies your deceit, the way you played your games
    Had left us all marked with all your ugly stains

    Its your turn now, your crying, you beg and plead
    But no one will answer that call of your selfish greed

    I thought you didn’t need me, you didn’t need anyone
    wasn’t it you that said my life was nothing
    and my pain was just your fun

    its funny when life hits you and takes you by surprise
    and all those little promises, were nothing more then lies

    you turn every corner now and your the one despised
    you can run away so dastardly but you will forever be disguised

    Give up, you have lost all your significance…
    Your apparent failure is the result of your ignorance

    Chances are you will never live this down
    Until the next time prevaricator, when you choose a different town……………….

  39. Mastering the malignant malevolence in a life of dissimulation
    Rose a powerful proclivity that took away your adoration

    Your love once warm it gave me light in all the dark places
    but like ancient ruins of a past life, there are only traces

    A small semblance of what used to be a symbol of devotion
    is now a diminutive part of a cumbersome emotion

    My light is gone, my light is gone, and I never turned to see
    before I could catch the debris, the foreboding caught me

    I held my breath as anticipation set in……
    and tore through my body as if paper was my skin

    and as the tenebrous night had settled, I exhaled with breaths of depreciation
    I became your object of repulsion and no longer a form of your adulation

  40. Wow Justin, These motherfkckers are lighting your ass up more than I ever could.

    Enjoy that flaming ass you walking hemorrhoid.

    /Retired Senior Master Sergeant Chip

    1. Follow the link….

      Justin has made a life convincing people he is an active duty Air Force member to obtain the little extra perks that go with that status. Though probably not to the level of Stolen Valor, but pretty low in some cases. Most of the claims about him are word of mouth, but include things like, using his fake AF status for jobs, reduced rates for an apartment, base privileges.

      He ended up losing his job at the car dealer for lying about his veteran status.

      1. A car dealer with ethics..Whoodathunkit? When a professional liar is headed on a downward spiral, where is the next lower rung on life’s ladder? Only thing that comes to mind is phone pitch sales, selling half price Viagra to gullible older men.

        1. Ethics, Hell. IMHO someone in said car dealer’s staff saw a wave of bad publicity coming from that lying little shit named Justin Sales and canned him for that.

          2. No they saw thru his bullshit and realized they couldn’t support a scam artist……….some salesman actually have scruples. Few and yet far in between its just if you can’t be a good enough liar to cover your every track well…..then you end up losing…hahahaha then call Becky with the good hair…..justins a pussy they new….we knew it….what’s the argument…..it’s like calling a cow fat hahahahaha

  43. A liar, a cheater he is a rapist of truth
    he spills his fabrications like the way I wasted my youth

    you took your false happiness and tried to make it real
    and now your walls are closing in…I wonder how you feel.

    The children that you left behind for that dysfunctional error
    Will one day come to haunt you in your nights of terror

    Your still arrogant, belligerent and you never seem to learn
    The people who knew you best are those ones you should never burn

    Your living a lie and I promise that life is going to crash
    That’s when you’ll realize you left us all for trash

    So get the bag ready, I cant wait to bag the ashes
    Everyone will look but no one cares about your gashes

    You can hate me, berate me, or even exact retaliation
    but the heart of the matter is your the one who needed to wake up to your own dissimulation

    I hope your future with the beast is something you in the end felt was treasured
    Because now the only breathes you take are the ones that will be measured

    I can only pray that one day you will understand
    A man is supposed to keep his family not take it from someone else’s hand

  44. Beyoncé – Sorry Lyrics

    [Chorus]
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t sorry, nigga, nah
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t sorry

    [Verse 1]
    He trying to roll me up, I ain’t picking up
    Headed to the club, I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    Me and my ladies sip my D’USSÉ cup
    I don’t give a fuck, chucking my deuces up
    Suck on my balls, pause, I had enough
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    I ain’t thinking ’bout

    [Bridge]
    Middle fingers up, put them hands high
    Wave it in his face, tell him, boy, bye
    Tell him, boy, bye, middle fingers up
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you

    [Hook]
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t sorry, nigga, nah
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    No no, hell nah

    [Verse 2]
    Now you want to say you’re sorry
    Now you want to call me crying
    Now you gotta see me wilding
    Now I’m the one that’s lying
    And I don’t feel bad about it
    It’s exactly what you get
    Stop interrupting my grinding
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you

    [Hook]
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you
    I ain’t thinking ’bout you

    [Bridge]
    Middle fingers up, put them hands high
    Wave it in his face, tell him, boy, bye
    Tell him, boy, bye, boy, bye
    Middle fingers up, I ain’t thinking ’bout you

    [Hook]
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t sorry, nigga, nah
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    Sorry, I ain’t sorry
    I ain’t sorry
    No no, hell nah

    [Verse 3]
    Looking at my watch, he shoulda been home
    Today I regret the night I put that ring on
    He always got them fucking excuses
    I pray to the Lord you reveal what his truth is
    I left a note in the hallway
    By the time you read it, I’ll be far away
    I’m far away
    But I ain’t fucking with nobody
    Let’s have a toast to the good life
    Suicide before you see this tear fall down my eyes
    Me and my baby, we gon’ be alright
    We gon’ live a good life
    Big homie better grow up
    Me and my whoadies ’bout to stroll up
    I see them boppers in the corner
    They sneaking out the back door
    He only want me when I’m not there
    He better call Becky with the good hair
    He better call Becky with the good hair

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QxsmWxxouIM

  45. Best Thing I Never Had Lyrics

    Beyonce – lyrics

    what goes around comes back around
    (Hey my baby)
    What goes around comes back around
    (Hey my baby)
    I say what goes around comes back around
    (Hey my baby)
    What goes around comes back around

    There was a time
    I thought that you did everything right
    No lies, no wrong
    Boy I, must’ve been outta my mind
    So when I think of the time that I almost loved you
    You showed your ass and I, I saw the real you

    Thank God you blew it
    Thank God I dodged the bullet
    I’m so over you
    So baby good lookin’ out

    I wanted you bad
    I’m so through with that
    ‘Cause honestly you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    You turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    And I’m gon’ always be the best thing you never had
    Oh I bet it sucks to be you right now

    So sad you’re hurt
    Boo hoo, oh, did you expect me to care?
    You don’t deserve my tears
    I guess that’s why they ain’t there
    When I think that there was a time that I almost loved you
    You showed your ass and baby yes, I saw the real you

    Thank God you blew it
    Thank God I dodged the bullet
    I’m so over you
    Baby good lookin’ out

    I wanted you bad
    I’m so through with that
    ‘Cause honestly you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    I said you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    Hmm, and I’ll never be the best thing you never had
    Oh baby, I bet it sucks to be you right now

    I know you want me back
    It’s time to face the facts
    That I’m the one that’s got away
    Lord knows that it would take another place
    Another time, another world, another life
    Thank God I found the good in goodbye

    I used to want you so bad
    I’m so through with that
    ‘Cause honestly you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    Oh you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    Oh and I will always be the best thing you never had
    Ooh best thing you never had

    I used to want you so bad
    I’m so through with that
    ‘Cause honestly you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    Oh you turned out to be the
    Best thing I never had
    Whoa, I’ll never be the best thing you never had
    Oh baby, I bet it sucks to be you right now

    (What goes around comes back around)
    (What goes around comes back around)
    Bet it sucks to be you right now
    (What goes around comes back around)
    Bet it sucks to be you right now
    (What goes around comes back around)
    Bet it sucks to be you right now

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHp2KgyQUFk

      1. Nicki Minaj ——STUPID HOE

        I get it cracking like a bad back
        Bitch talkin she the queen when she looking like a lab rat
        I’m Angelina, you Jennifer come on bitch you see where Brad at?

        Ice my wrist-es then I piss on bitches
        You could suck my diznick, if you take these jizzes
        You don’t like them disses, give my ass some kisses
        Yeah they know what this is, give bitches the business

        Cause I pull up and I’m stuntin but I ain’t a stuntman
        Yes I’m rockin Jordans but I ain’t a jumpman
        Bitches play the back cuz they know I’m the frontman
        Put me on a dollar cause I’m who they trust in
        Ayo SB, what the fuck’s good?
        We ship platinum, them bitches is shippin wood
        Them nappy headed hoes, but my kitchen good
        I wish I wish I wish I wish a bitch would

        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, yeah you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, yeah you a you a stupid hoe

        Look Bubbles, go back to ya habitat
        MJ gone and I ain’t havin that
        How you gonna be the stunt double to the nigga monkey??
        Top of that I’m in the Phantom lookin hella chonky

        Ice my wrist-es then I piss on bitches
        You could suck my diznick, if you take these jizzes
        You don’t like them disses, give my ass some kisses
        Yeah they know what this is, give bitches the business

        ‘Cause I pull up in the Porsche but it ain’t de Rossi
        Pretty bitches only could get in my posse
        Yes my name is Roman, last name is Zolanski
        But no relation to Roman Polanski
        Hey, yo Baby Bop, fuck you and your EP
        Who’s gassing this ho? BP?
        Hmm.. thinks 1, 2, 3, do the Nicki Minaj blink
        ‘Cause these hoes so busted, hoes is so crusty
        These bitches is my sons and I don’t want custody
        Hoes so busted, hoes is so crusty these bitches is my sons and I don’t want custody

        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, yeah you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, you a you a stupid hoe
        You a stupid hoe, yeah you a you a stupid hoe

        If you cute, then your crew can roll
        If you sexy, eat my cucka roll
        Put ya cape on, you a super hoe
        Twenty twelve, I’m at the super bowl
        Stupid hoes is my enemy, stupid hoes is so wack
        Stupid ho shoulda befriended me then she coulda prolly came back
        Stupid hoes is my enemy, stupid hoes is so wack
        Stupid ho shoulda befriended me then she could’ve probably came back
        You a stupid ho, you a stupid ho, you a stupid ho
        And I ain’t hit that note but fuck a stupid ho, fuck you stupid hoe
        I said fuck a stupid ho and fuck a stupid hoe
        I said fuck a stupid ho and fuck a stupid hoe
        I said fuck a stupid ho and fuck a stupid hoe
        I am the female Weezy

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